There are a whooooole bunch of things a girl can do to tell the world she’s in a cheeky mood, without literally telling the world she’s in a cheeky mood. And I’ve gotten pretty good at it :p Here’s some of these teasing techniques every girl (or boy, ‘cuz why the hell not?) should have in their repertoire.
Underdressing
Easily the bestest way to get the people around you to assume you’re on a naughty roll, is to underdress. The good thing about this is that you can do it all day & every day, regardless of the “expected” outfit you’re supposed to wear. Casual day at work/college? Go white tank & booty shorts. Formal party? Deep-cut dress & no bra. Whether it’s party time (short, shorter, shortest), lazy Sundays (ex-bf’s shirt or kimono) or a day at the beach (thongkini, topless or – live a little – fully naked), there’s always ways to underdress.
Unless it’s the middle of the night and you’re getting pounded from behind, but in that case, they probably know what kinda mood you’re in by then.
Joke around
Nothing says “I’m a naughty girl” more than laughing at & making risqué jokes. It makes you look casual about sexy things (which is what you want) and tells the people around you you’re not a prude. So next time that kinda gross guy at work makes another dirty remark, don’t roll your eyes, laugh about it and get in on the fun. Nothing a well-timed That’s what he said can’t fix!
Send nudes
We live in amazing times. It’s really easy to send photos and videos over to whoever you’d like to see them, but even more so: you’re not instantaneously dubbed a slut or whore any longer when you send an intentional nip slip, look-at-my-new-bra or shower selfie to your ex or possible future lover.
It doesn’t even matter whether you’ve just started talking and you’re sending your first pic without a comfy sweater on, or you’re showing your booty call a close-up of your new hair style down there, you’ll instantly be giving off the right vibe – especially when they’re unsollicited.
Be open
As adorable as giggly girls can be when the teacher brings up a drawing of the male body in Sex Ed 101, I still prefer being the cheeky version of that girl: instead of giggling, she tilts her head and bites her lip. Most guys, and a lot of girls too, actually like talking about sex. So when someone asks you about masturbation techniques or favorite positions, just answer them! Hell, tell them all they wanna know and then some. No matter who you’re talking to, I bet they’d love to know you’ve been masturbating in the shower this morning, but you didn’t wanna finish just yet, so now you’re semi-naked in front of your laptop, writing a blog post about how to be a cheeky girl.
Did I just say that out loud? 😉
Show underwear
If there’s one thing I’ve learned throughout my life, it’s that boys like panties. I don’t know exactly what it is (although I’m assuming it has something to do with this final barrier idea, breaking through the enemy’s last line of defense), but it’s definitely a thing. They like to see them, they like to touch them, they like to take them off… some even like to wear them (which I think is kinda intriguing, so keep doing it).
Now, it’s a bit weird to have them being touched out in the open, but you can definitely show them off. A thong peeking over your jeans? Yup. Boy shorts underneath your gym shorts? Mhmm. Those super sexy red laced panties semi-deliberately being visible from certain angles under your party dress? Yasssss!
Oh, and if you’re already at an in-the-bedroom level of play, use them for your strip tease, have your lover pull them down (with their teeth!), yank them to the side, or even jizz all over them. You can always buy new ones!
In the bedroom
Once you’ve decided there’s going to be even sexier things happening, it doesn’t mean you have to stop being cheeky. You can still be a major tease (make them waaaiiitttt). You can still use your words to spice things up (nothing says “fuck me, i’m a slut” better than a girl saying “fuck me, i’m a slut”). You can still pretend to be that adorable giggly girl when he drops his pants, but don’t forget to tilt your head and bite your lips.
And even during the fun times, you’re not done yet. Make it sloppy, make it intense, be as loud, as ticklish, as squirmy as you wanna be.
Because there’s only one reason anyone would ever bring out the cheekiness – and everybody will know exactly what’s on your mind.